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Is Your Brain Sabotaging Your Relationship?

February 17, 20252 min read

Most of our neural programming is formed causally—our experiences shape our brain, and then we unconsciously repeat them. This works brilliantly for everyday skills like walking, dressing, or driving. But when it comes to relationships, these automatic patterns can lead to happiness sabotage—without us even realizing it.

The Hidden Pattern Holding You Back

Have you ever had exciting news to share with your partner, only to be met with lukewarm enthusiasm—or even resistance? Maybe they’re trying to match your excitement but just can’t, or perhaps they’re preoccupied with something else. But if you carry a subconscious fear of rejection, your brain may instantly interpret their response as a lack of love, support, or even jealousy.

Here’s what’s actually happening on a brain level:

Through the years, couples develop support cycles—one struggles, and the other steps in as the strong, supportive one. While this pattern helps navigate tough times, it also unintentionally gets wired into the brain as:

“When one of us is down, the other needs to be up.”

The problem? The reverse also becomes true:

“When one of us is up… the other needs to be down.”

Without realizing it, your brain resists happiness together—not because of your partner, but because of subconscious programming that dictates the emotional balance in the relationship.

It’s Time to Rewire Your Subconscious for Love

This is just one of the many hidden patterns we’ll be releasing and rewiring during our upcoming LOVE mE Seminar on February 22nd at 2 PM EST.

In this transformational experience, we’ll:
✨ Clear subconscious blocks that sabotage love
✨ Activate the four key aspects scientifically proven to create lasting happiness
✨ Shift from resistance to flow—where love feels natural, effortless, and expansive

If you or someone you love is looking to attract their soulmate or deepen their current relationship, share this opportunity with them. The more hearts we awaken to love, the more love we bring into the world.

[Register here for the LOVE mE Soulmate Seminar]

Quantum Shift Activation

Place your hand on your heart and affirm:

"I know what it feels like to love and be loved fully and completely. I welcome LOVE. I am LOVE. I am mE."

This past week, I’ve had incredible global publicity and opportunities—yet my greatest excitement is for this seminar. Because nothing compares to witnessing people shift into love, connection, and the fullness of their being.

It’s your turn.

Surrender to LOVE,
Vica

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Victoria Rader, PhD, Founder of YU2SHINE

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Victoria Rader, PhD, Founder of YU2SHINE

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